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Handcuffs, Blindfolds, and Floggers, Oh My!

Handcuffs, Blindfolds, and Floggers, Oh My!

To Get Started...

Here’s a little bit about what I do.

BDSM gear such as floggers, masks, restraints, paddles, chokers are my primary focus. Why? Simply put, sex sells, and most of what is out there to be sold is crap! As a long-time customer of stores that sell similar items, I’ve found I spent a lot of money on things that look pretty, but they are made of thin, cheap material that doesn’t hold up well to long-term use. They are machine-sewn, and the stitching tends to wear and break.

f I’m going to spend $80-$100 on handcuffs, I want to be able to use them more than 2 or 3 times! I work hard for my money, and I’m sure you do too. If you’re just getting into using things like this, it might not be a huge deal to grab something off the shelf just to try it out and learn what you do and don’t like. If these are things you’d use on a regular basis, it just might be worth checking out higher-quality products!

Whatever your preference...

Make sure you have fun!

It’s not for everyone, of course, but there is a select portion of the population that enjoys the benefit of using things like this. Some enjoy sampling the illusion that someone else has control over the pleasure they experience and play with items like these here and there, while others add them to their intimate experiences regularly. Whichever end of the spectrum you’re on, I hope you can appreciate the quality of the items I offer, and if you haven’t tried it before, remember…it’s only kinky the first time!


Handcuffs and chokers are generally simple items in theory. With some creativity, they can be used in multiple ways. The first thing I did was make my own set, and they turned out to be fantastic! For instance, your partner may restrain your hands behind your back or in front of you. Imagine the feel of the soft leather against your skin, the sound it makes when you move, the weight of it around your wrists or ankles. Now imagine how enhanced those sensations are when you are blindfolded!

Handcuffs aren’t limited to use alone, they can also be used with other BDSM gear. There are several options like tables, chairs, and posts they can be used with for playtime. We don’t make those (yet!), but we DO make other items the hand and ankle cuffs can be used with, and that leads me to the next product.

Blue Cuffs


Restraints are a great addition to the handcuffs, and I love making things that people are searching for and just can’t quite find the perfect item that will suit their needs. Handcuffs and floggers, paddles and belts, whatever the item is, customization makes a difference. When you go to the store to buy a belt and harness, you can’t ask for extra D rings for more places to clip those handcuffs, custom fit cuffs or harnesses, or specific color preferences for your hardware and leather, but I can customize them for you!

The first lower harness I made for myself, which includes a belt and straps that go around your lower body and thighs, has an impressive 4″ belt and is definitely not the typical item you can pick up at the store! I put my nickname on it, and some decorative tooling, with tons of D rings and adjustable buckles. I absolutely love the colors and material I chose for it, and it does everything I need it to do. That includes attaching those custom-made handcuffs to it! The second thing I made was an upper-body harness. Essentially it’s a lot of leather straps that end up resembling a bra, with several D rings that can be used with the handcuffs as well.


Paddles and Floggers

Paddles can be tricky! Everyone has different preferences in terms of what they enjoy. Maybe you just like a little tap here and there with a soft thin one that results in a light sting. Someone else may want a thicker or wider paddle that covers more surface area. The entire point is to add a little something extra with new and different experiences! Customization is, of course, something you don’t get at the store. Maybe you have been looking, but what you find may not be solid enough, or it may be too flimsy. Maybe you want a phrase or name on it…you know, so no one tries to run off with your toys haha. What works for you? I’d love to help make something that you can enjoy!

We are just getting into making handcuffs and floggers, so if you have some ideas or suggestions, I’d love to hear them!


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